I have enjoyed using facebook as a methodology of connecting with others. It is now time to leave.

Perhaps it is known by many that the information on Face book was declared as public knowledge by the creator and could be used as a means of profit for him.

I was willing to consider that this was ‘All well and good’, that is until…

Recently, I was rudely awakened to an unfortunate side of knowledge that is pervasive in multi cultural communications.

It is simply that of misinterpretation of content without regard of context, deliberate or not.

In the position of the author of the text, the recipient is expected to understand the context of what was expressed and thus the content.

Others, visiting the comment{s} may misjudge the Intention of the Context and therefore misinterpret the Content.

So?

It was not written to them anyway, right?

Perhaps true, however not without consequence.

Gossip is a favorite pastime for some and they typically have little concern over the effect upon others.

I will make an assumption here that you, the reader of this text, have seen magazines that may even deliberately distort a situation for the sake of creating a provocative story without regard to truth or harm that may be caused by the story.

Am I saying that I am leaving facebook because one or more have chosen to gossip of my activities?? No - it is the potential of misinterpretation of Intention of my activities.

As part of my research, perhaps for other reasons, I commented on a ‘Meetup’ group which was offering lessons in Tantra Puja –a sacred art of learning self and others on a more intimate level.

Did I say sex?

No, I do not consider intimacy with a close friend or even a group of people you have just met ... as Intention for Sexual activities, although it can be of course.

Learning the inner self, MY inner self, is a journey I have been on for many years.

I recently was in Brighton England, UK, for training by The NLP Academy to be congruent with self …

Fabulous Results … Brilliant as my friends Michael & Jack Carroll at the Academy might say

I also have a Coaching Business, ‘Sacred Reality Within’, in which clients who have ‘Conflicted Intentions’ ...  want this – do that instead.

The Intention of my Coaching them is that the can find resolve by finding ‘The Intimacy’ of connecting With Self, “The Right of Personal Choice” without undue influence of 'others'.

If you are not fully connected with Self, can you really connect successfully with others??

Rev. L E Mason
nlp.sacredreality@gmail.com

One of the many tools in the NLP 'tool box' is personal learning’s of self: 

what are you afraid of gaining?
 
what are you afraid of losing?

What are you afraid of Not gaining?

What are you afraid of Not losing?

It is one of the NLP 'tools' to reveal and attend to persons limiting beliefs.  

I find that it is actually fun to work in concert with individuals to discover an alternate ‘self’ that was successful in an earlier time to protect the individual.

The previous success then became a strategy to resolve apparent similar conflicts. As the ‘whole’ becomes subservient to ‘the part’ that was successful,

Thus, the ‘Part' is allowed to continue as the solution while ‘the whole’ remains in conflict.